Friday, December 30, 2011

The suffeRING?

I've been listening to FLY FM, 'Fix It-Rewind' segment this morning. It was a recorded call, not live show by the way. Okay, to cut it short, Fix It today was about a wife asking FLY FM's help to tell her husband to stop pursuing her back. The reason was, the husband slept with another woman and got that 'another' woman pregnant. Okay, since I didn't hear from the very beginning of the show, so I assumed, that for the past two months, the wife did tried to give the I-don't-want-you-anymore-and-please-back-off message to the husband. I bet the message didn't get across and so, she tried another alternative by joining this 'Fix It' thingy. Then, they called the husband and he said that it was not fair for Nadia (Fly FM DJ) to say that he had the one night stand and got the other woman pregnant, without knowing the reason behind it. Owh, is he trying to say that a husband can do one night stand if there's a solid reason?? Sounds bloody hell to me.. He was defending himself by saying that he has gone through hard times with his wife as all this while they were longing for a child. He said they've been seeing so many doctors and have been going to hospitals and yet, they still couldn't have any child. But he admitted that that one night stand was a big mistake but he is still going to keep the baby.... Herm... The DJs were as confused as I was, okay, the wife called FLY FM, as the husband cheated on the wife, he got another woman pregnant,  and he wants to keep the baby and at the same time he wants his wife back and forgive him and live happily ever after like nothing happened? Did I missed out anything?? From my point of view, the husband was indirectly, trying to say that the wife was the one whom having a fertility problem, you know, like "Hey, at least the lady I slept with got pregnant." Owh, by the way, the wife was on air and can hear all of her husband's conversation. There were some arguments and finally the wife asked him, "What if you are the one who's having problem and I slept with another man and got pregnant, can you accept that?" He didn't answer that question. But it came to conclusion that the husband chose the baby and will stop pursuing his wife, if that what she wants and would make her happy. More or less, the problem considered.. fixed.... Yeah.... that's what she wants at the first place, the reason she brought all this to the Radio station..... 

But am still................disagree at one point, why need to bring all this on air? My positive side of brain said, it can be a lesson to be told to others..or maybe that's the only way for the wife to fix that problem. Could be...



*sigh*  Complicated,  too many "maybes and what ifs" have been lining up in my head but I don't have to say it out loud I guess...

Marriage, I bet this is the 'suffeRING' part on top of wedding and engagement rings....

Put it this way, the future is a mystery. Same goes to marriage, it's the beginning of everything, there will always be challenges to be taken up be it with your husband, your parents, siblings, in laws, children, co-worker, neighbor, pets and the list goes on....Wah, as if am married la kan? Anyways, one thing for sure, there's no fairytale wedding in our entire universe, you know, the happily ever after thingy. We cannot expect thing is going to be smooth sailing all the way. When things are not according to what we want, what we have planned, and we fell, lets exaggerate a bit,  and we drenched in rain with mud all over.....Well, it's not the fall part that need to be questioned. What matters, is how you get up, bounce back, stand up, move on and never look back, or if you stubborn enough, like myself once,  you still want to look back, make sure you are strong enough to 'look back'. It's easy to say than to do it right? Have faith as everything is Allah's Qada' & Qadar. Insyaallah. 


Phewh, one radio segment leads to one serious entry? I shouldn't have listened to the radio then........ 




Thursday, December 29, 2011

We Lunch We 'Karoks'

1. We went to Red Box
2. The whole department - more or less
3. During Lunch Hour
4. We had lunch
5. We sing on top of our lungs
7. I sang Mulanya Disini & Bila Resah.. Amboi nye.....
6. And back to work... thee hee....



 



Let's do it again....shall we.. oops..... 

Am Crazyyyy Overrr.......

...FRIDGE MAGNETS!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
warghhhh~~~
Ehem...,hihi.. crazy indeed.....am not too sure when it started...but it turned serious now..hahahah...Alah, baru je berkecimpung dalam bidang 'fridge magnet' ni..:P But actually, I used to be the key chain collector back then... Tak adelah banyak sangat sebenarnya and besides, am sharing my new hobby with Mrs. Lisa... Oh yaa.....she started it and it 'contagious'..Hahaha... Which means, not all fridge magnets below are mine...Hahahaha.. But am the one seems to be over-reacted here.... :P Well, over-reacting? So me... hahahaha.. Anyways, we've separated our fridge magnets to two 'segments'.. overseas and local...

 Overseas Fridge Magnet... :)
Recently received from my auntie :)

My favorite fridge magnet :)


 Local Fridge Magnet... :)



Ahah, and this one is my favorite.. I think...it's cute :)

Babe, next time we travel together and collect all of fridge magnet together ya :)  For the time being, we 'kirim' to those who travels a lot.. hahaha... 

Haih...Fridge magnet... fridge magnet.. okay dah..

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Lily Is BACK!!!!

Naughty me... Look what have I done to Lily's workplace yesterday!! Miaaahahahahaha....Who asked you to go for maternity for three months???


I've arrived to office quite early as I was so anxious to welcome Lily back to work and to see her reaction when she saw her workplace.... huhuhuu... Eleh, so shy Lily..... Okay, please help to strike a pose.. Psst, check out Lily's bags... Very the mak-mak.. :P


Olololo, Lily's boss missed her so much.... Dah macam jejak kasih pun ada ni.


Finally, Recruitment Team is complete!


Hah, apelagi, paparazzi on the loose!  Snap..Snap & Snap!

 
 
 

Dah... back to work! :) It seems that Lily's boss can't wait to hand over back all of Lily's task.. You've forgotten your password right.. miahahaha.... :P

Nevertheless, Lily........ am so glad...That you're back! :)

Weekend Movie Marathon @ ASTRO

I took advantage of my auntie's ASTRO, since she subscribed HBO, Star Movie, Cinimax, etc... :) I seldom watch movies. So I grabbed the opportunity to watch back to back movies!!! YAYYY... Lima bintang untuk semua movies but the best movies goes to The King's Speech!!! :) I thought I wanted to make movie review but nahh.. all old movies...hahaha..
 
HOW TO TRAIN YOUR DRAGON

TANGLED


THE KING'S SPEECH

THE A-TEAM

P/s: Thank you, Auntie Muss & ASTRO!!

Monday, December 26, 2011

Temerloh Ku Kampung Ku........

In conjunction of longggggg happy holidays, yayyyy.... :), last Saturday, I went to my beloved grandmother's house in Temerloh together with my dearest mother, auntie and cousin. The main reason besides visiting my grandma was to attend my another cousin's wedding in Mentakab on Sunday. Then, next reason was the ..... cooking activities. My grandma has assigned me to make 'Bubur Jagung' and 'Gulai Ikan Patin Tempoyak' :) Okay, the gulai one...not so bad as I've been to her 'intensive classes' quite a few times :P But the bubur part.........erm...but I gave her positive remarks, "Okay Uwan, Ha buat nanti..." 

My Beloved Uwan :) 
With my dear cousin....
My deaaaaaarest Auntie 'Muss' :)
My beloved Umima... :)
The bride a.k.a my cousin, Hidanah :)
Hidanah & her husband Izuan, Alhamdulillah. Selamat Pengantin Baru!


Me and my auntie left the wedding quite early :P As the next mission to accomplish......to make Bubur Jagung!!!!!!!! From the scratch!! Owh, and not to forget... Gulai Ikan Patin as well.. Wewww.... Bring it on!!!!







This is how you remove the corn from the cob.
As been instructed by my Uwan, we need to pound the corn.. So that it cooks easily..

And into the periuk........


Thank you to my dear assistant :) You're my one loyal assistant! :)

Alhamdulillah... Siap jugak!! One down!! One more to go!

NEXTTT..... the gulaiiii.. these are the ingredients.....

This is the main ingredient, obviously.... Helo, Ikan Patin!! :)


 

Wooo...The 'periuks' was side by side... Masterchef pun tak buat camni..hahahaha...

 
Iklan....This 'premature' cucumber was from my sister's farm.. :)
Oh this Donut........was not in my mission list.. My uncle bought it and the donuts....
Sooooo tempting!!
Look at this yummy, chubby and fluffy donut!!!!!
You think I just want to hold this fluffy donut???
And what happenned next was....history...hahahaha.....
Tadaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....Gulai Ikan Patin Tempoyak, Termerloh style and at my grandma's house..ONLY... :)

Alhamdulillah..... :) I love my family.. I love Temerloh... I love Ikan patin!!! hahaha....