I've been listening to FLY FM, 'Fix It-Rewind' segment this morning. It was a recorded call, not live show by the way. Okay, to cut it short, Fix It today was about a wife asking FLY FM's help to tell her husband to stop pursuing her back. The reason was, the husband slept with another woman and got that 'another' woman pregnant. Okay, since I didn't hear from the very beginning of the show, so I assumed, that for the past two months, the wife did tried to give the I-don't-want-you-anymore-and-please-back-off message to the husband. I bet the message didn't get across and so, she tried another alternative by joining this 'Fix It' thingy. Then, they called the husband and he said that it was not fair for Nadia (Fly FM DJ) to say that he had the one night stand and got the other woman pregnant, without knowing the reason behind it. Owh, is he trying to say that a husband can do one night stand if there's a solid reason?? Sounds bloody hell to me.. He was defending himself by saying that he has gone through hard times with his wife as all this while they were longing for a child. He said they've been seeing so many doctors and have been going to hospitals and yet, they still couldn't have any child. But he admitted that that one night stand was a big mistake but he is still going to keep the baby.... Herm... The DJs were as confused as I was, okay, the wife called FLY FM, as the husband cheated on the wife, he got another woman pregnant, and he wants to keep the baby and at the same time he wants his wife back and forgive him and live happily ever after like nothing happened? Did I missed out anything?? From my point of view, the husband was indirectly, trying to say that the wife was the one whom having a fertility problem, you know, like "Hey, at least the lady I slept with got pregnant." Owh, by the way, the wife was on air and can hear all of her husband's conversation. There were some arguments and finally the wife asked him, "What if you are the one who's having problem and I slept with another man and got pregnant, can you accept that?" He didn't answer that question. But it came to conclusion that the husband chose the baby and will stop pursuing his wife, if that what she wants and would make her happy. More or less, the problem considered.. fixed.... Yeah.... that's what she wants at the first place, the reason she brought all this to the Radio station.....
But am still................disagree at one point, why need to bring all this on air? My positive side of brain said, it can be a lesson to be told to others..or maybe that's the only way for the wife to fix that problem. Could be...
*sigh* Complicated, too many "maybes and what ifs" have been lining up in my head but I don't have to say it out loud I guess...
Marriage, I bet this is the 'suffeRING' part on top of wedding and engagement rings....
Put it this way, the future is a mystery. Same goes to marriage, it's the beginning of everything, there will always be challenges to be taken up be it with your husband, your parents, siblings, in laws, children, co-worker, neighbor, pets and the list goes on....Wah, as if am married la kan? Anyways, one thing for sure, there's no fairytale wedding in our entire universe, you know, the happily ever after thingy. We cannot expect thing is going to be smooth sailing all the way. When things are not according to what we want, what we have planned, and we fell, lets exaggerate a bit, and we drenched in rain with mud all over.....Well, it's not the fall part that need to be questioned. What matters, is how you get up, bounce back, stand up, move on and never look back, or if you stubborn enough, like myself once, you still want to look back, make sure you are strong enough to 'look back'. It's easy to say than to do it right? Have faith as everything is Allah's Qada' & Qadar. Insyaallah.
Phewh, one radio segment leads to one serious entry? I shouldn't have listened to the radio then........
But am still................disagree at one point, why need to bring all this on air? My positive side of brain said, it can be a lesson to be told to others..or maybe that's the only way for the wife to fix that problem. Could be...
*sigh* Complicated, too many "maybes and what ifs" have been lining up in my head but I don't have to say it out loud I guess...
Marriage, I bet this is the 'suffeRING' part on top of wedding and engagement rings....
Put it this way, the future is a mystery. Same goes to marriage, it's the beginning of everything, there will always be challenges to be taken up be it with your husband, your parents, siblings, in laws, children, co-worker, neighbor, pets and the list goes on....Wah, as if am married la kan? Anyways, one thing for sure, there's no fairytale wedding in our entire universe, you know, the happily ever after thingy. We cannot expect thing is going to be smooth sailing all the way. When things are not according to what we want, what we have planned, and we fell, lets exaggerate a bit, and we drenched in rain with mud all over.....Well, it's not the fall part that need to be questioned. What matters, is how you get up, bounce back, stand up, move on and never look back, or if you stubborn enough, like myself once, you still want to look back, make sure you are strong enough to 'look back'. It's easy to say than to do it right? Have faith as everything is Allah's Qada' & Qadar. Insyaallah.
Phewh, one radio segment leads to one serious entry? I shouldn't have listened to the radio then........
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